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Karen and I are both country kids. I grew up in the hills, southwest of Columbus, Indiana, while Karen grew up on a farm northwest of Terre Haute.
After graduating from Columbus North High School in 1976, I studied engineering at Rose-Hulman Institute of Technology in Terre Haute, Indiana. Karen and I met during our freshman year, while she was studying at St. Mary of the Woods College - also in the Terre Haute area.
While at Rose-Hulman, I began partying and drinking more and more, which almost ended my college career. However, Karen encouraged me to stay in school and helped me make a turn-around in my studies and grades.
We graduated in 1980, with my degree in mechanical engineering and Karen’s in history and secondary education. We married in August of that same year and returned to my hometown of Columbus where I took a job as an engineer in a small, but growing manufacturing company. Karen soon found a job working for a bank and later for a CPA.
In the spring of 1981, I joined a country band, playing guitar and singing lead vocals. Although I kept my engineering job, I played in bars and clubs almost every weekend for over three years. This lifestyle led to a serious drinking problem and almost ruined our marriage. We were in the divorce lawyer’s office by the spring of 1982. Once again, Karen stood by me and we decided to give our marriage another chance, but by the summer of 1984, I was again ready to quit my marriage and my job and was considering pursuing a career in music.
However, the Lord intervened in my life through a Christian friend who had talked with me for over five years about my need for Christ. Although I had never listened to him before, it was in the summer of 1984 that we ended up in a conversation that ultimately the Lord used to get my attention. My friend had given me a lot to think about, and the Lord was at work in my heart. Within a few days, I came to faith in Christ.
That decision changed my life forever. The Lord restored our marriage, took the alcohol out of my life and within two months, Karen had trusted Christ for her salvation as well. We soon began attending Berean Bible Church, a great church with excellent preaching of The Word, a strong emphasis on evangelism and a deep passion for missions. Before long, the Lord began directing us toward full-time Christian service.
During a missions conference at our new home church, the Lord seemed to put a burden on my heart to be a missionary - and I began praying that the Lord would send someone that I could talk to about this desire. He answered that prayer within just a few months. A young married couple, students at the Word of Life Bible Institute in Schroon Lake, New York, came to our church to do an internship.
Through the influence of that couple, we decided that we should get some formal Bible training at the WOL Bible Institute, as well. We enrolled in 1985, one year after we were saved, and it was an incredible year. The Lord used this year of studying His Word, plus some great teachers and a number of dear friends, to help us make decisions concerning our next step toward full-time ministry and the mission field.
So, the next year, in 1986, it was on to Dallas Theological Seminary to begin work on a Th.M. degree. In January of 1988, we returned to Schroon Lake to serve an internship with Word of Life in which I held the position of Dean of Men at the Bible Institute. Our son, Chris, was born in August of that year.
While serving in the Bible Institute, we fell in love with both Word of Life and especially the Bible Institute ministry. Our plans changed as this one-year internship turned into almost three years of ministry. The Lord used this time to provide further direction for the future. We began thinking that we would really like to found and direct a Bible Institute in a country where there was virtually no solid biblical training.
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